1. Wine Glasses – Wine glasses are an essential in a French girl’s apartment. Although it sounds counterintuitive, thinner glasses are actually better when it comes to quality!
2. China Set – A nice set of china or tea cups not only serves a functional purpose but also as décor if you pick up a pair with a more vintage-inspired look.
3. Glass Coffee Cups – In case a guest stops over for a cup of espresso, these glass mugs will look beautiful no matter what beverage you use them for.
4. AD Coffee Table Book – You’ll find coffee table books in many Parisian and French apartments, as they not only serve as decoration but also as conversation starters. Choose books that cover a topic you’re interested in, like architecture, photography, fashion, etc., and whenever you have a few spare minutes, they’re an easy source of inspiration.
5. Espresso Maker – This espresso maker is great because you don’t have to be a full-fledged barista to use it. This one has 4.8 stars, comes in a beautiful neutral beige tone, and is compact – making it great for cozy kitchens.
6. Jo Malone Diffuser – This diffuser is well-known for its sophisticated and subtle scents. Diffusers are great because you don’t have to worry about remembering to blow them out, and so they’ll leave your home smelling beautiful 24/7.
7. Linen Sheets – French girls love linen sheets because they’re easy to wash, hold up well over time, and are great for every season. Plus, these are a French linen set, small batch-sourced from Normandy, and 100% organic.
8. Diptyque Candle – Diptyque is a Parisian brand – in fact, their very first shop was located at 34 Boulevard Saint-Germain in Paris and was begun by a few friends in 1961 who wanted to open a boutique with a simple concept, full of things they loved. They’re now known internationally for their fragrances.
9. Vogue Coffee Table Book – Paris is known for fashion, and Vogue is a great source of inspiration for not only French fashion, but style from around the world. If you’re ever in need of outfit inspiration, open to a page in this book and try to recreate the look.

1. Blush Tint – French makeup typically focuses on a more natural look, and a buildable cream blush will give you the ability to go more subtle if you want a hint of sun-kissed skin.
2. Micellar Water – French women are more focused on skincare than makeup, and one of the most important parts of skincare is fully removing your makeup at the end of the day. Micellar water will help dissolve any products on your skin, which you can then follow up with your preferred cleanser.
3. Mirror Compact – If you’re out and about all day (especially if you live in a bigger city and are walking a lot), a compact is a small but great tool to throw in your bag. A compact is also perfect if you’re accenting your makeup with a bold lip, for touch-ups if you need them.
4. Red Lip – French women typically choose between their lips or eyes when it comes to daily makeup. If lipstick is more your style, a deep red is forever a classic. This brand offers a variety of shades. If you haven’t tried it before, look up the undertones of your skin to help find a shade of red that most complements it.
5. Nude Nail Polish – Parisian women tend to stick to more natural nails, and when they do choose to paint them, they choose classic colors like neutral or red shades – YSL and Chanel being especially popular for brands. Emulate a natural nail with just a hint of color using a lighter shade of pink like this one from OPI.
6. Hand Cream – This French product is a 2-in-1 moisturizer and primer, and has over 18,000 5-star reviews on Amazon alone. It’s suitable for all skin types and has even been recommended by celebrity makeup artists.
7. YSL Concealer – The YSL brightening concealer is another great product for a no-makeup, makeup look. It can conceal and brighten any spots you wish – whether they be dark spots, acne, or maybe just places you want to highlight, like the tops of your cheekbones or the bridge of your nose. It’s a great standalone product if you opt not to wear foundation.
8. Lotion – L’Occitane is another French skincare brand. Made with organic shea butter, it will keep your skin hydrated year round and is available in a small size to throw in your purse for on the go.
9. Sunscreen – Sunscreen is another key ingredient to great skin and anti-aging. An essential for a natural look that will last you long into the future.
10. Bath Salts – Women in Paris walk a LOT, and if you’re like me, I always associate beautiful, clawfoot tubs with the quintessential French apartment! These bath salts not only smell great but also help soothe your skin after a long day.
11. Cosmetic Bag – Keep your makeup products and skincare organized in a classic leather makeup bag, which is also great for traveling.

1. Floral Art – Besides bringing dried florals into your home (which is another very popular staple in French homes), floral artwork adds an organic, softer element to help balance out neutral colors or bold statement pieces.
2. Provincial-Inspired Art – Another way to bring in French-inspired elements is through artwork that exudes French landscapes, towns, or cities, like this print. You can also find prints like this through antiquing or thrifting.
3. Chandelier – Chandeliers are a popular statement piece in Parisian apartments throughout the city. This one from Amazon gives old-world charm, without the price of an heirloom fixture.
4. Candlesticks – Candles are an easy way to add a warm, romantic feel to any space. Elevate their look with gold or brass candlesticks. They’re great on fireplace mantles or on your coffee table.
5. Bistro Set – When you think of Paris, the famous balconies overlooking the city or the Seine may come to mind. Especially in a big city, outdoor space is a luxury, no matter the size. A small bistro set like this will work even on smaller patios and decks, and will give you an elegant spot to read the paper and drink your espresso.
6. Patterned Rug – A patterned or colorful rug is another way to bring in a point of interest into French apartments, where Parisians often opt for more neutral wall colors.
7. Gold Lamps – Other than candles, lamplight is another great way to bring in warm, soft light to your space. These two lamps would work well on end tables, or even on your kitchen counter.
8. Ornate Mirror – Mirrors can serve as more than just functional. They help to make small spaces seem larger (especially if you live in an older building where the rooms may be smaller), plus an ornate mirror like this one can help to serve as a work of art.
9. Statement Chair – The floral pattern on this chair provides visual interest, but the neutral color would help it blend with a couch that may be something other than neutral. Its legs and shape give it a classic, French cottage feel.
10. Rustic Desk – This is another dual-purpose piece, as it’s beautiful and functional. It’s also giving a French cottage, rustic look and would look great in your living room as it’s small enough that it wouldn’t have to be assigned to an office.

Being thoughtful with what you’re bringing into your home is the key, no matter where it’s from. Thinking about how you’ll use a product, and where, will get you in the mindset of being more intentional with how you shop, and where you spend your money. Whether your aim is function or beauty, or both, you can find Parisian-inspired products all over – even on Amazon!

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I wasn’t entirely sure what the unpacking process would feel like. Would I be excited to be reunited with my clothes? Overwhelmed? Though I already base my wardrobe philosophy around a capsule wardrobe, I still probably have more clothes than the average person. But since I did a decluttering session before I moved, I would just unpack everything and hang it up – right? Well, not exactly. Here’s how it really went as well as some lessons I learned (and was reminded of) after this intense unpacking journey!

What I Learned After Taking (About Half of) My Clothes out of Storage

1. Declutter Before You Move

As I was drowning under boxes, bags, and bins for the new house, all I could think was, “I’m glad I decluttered before we moved.” When it was time to tackle my closet, the process felt easier because I had put in a lot of the work before. There were fewer clothes to deal with and fewer decisions to make, making the process more manageable.

So, speaking from experience, decluttering your closet before packing, moving, or even storing off-season clothing will save you time, effort, and unnecessary stress! Take the opportunity to go through each item of clothing and ask yourself some tough questions. Do you really wear that old sweater from five years ago? Do those jeans still fit? Be ruthless in your decision-making process. If you haven’t worn something in 6+ months or it no longer excites you or serves a practical purpose, it’s time to let it go.

Decluttering before I moved lightened the load, but it also gave me a chance to donate some of my clothes that were still in good condition, giving them a new chance at life. But, decluttering before I moved didn’t guarantee everything was still a winner…

2. There’s Always More You Can Get Rid Of

When you finally arrive at your new home and start unpacking, it’s tempting to simply put everything away as quickly as possible. However, this is the perfect opportunity to continue decluttering and make sure you only keep what you truly need and love.

As I unpacked my clothes, I was surprised to find that my feelings had changed towards certain items. I could pinpoint a lot of these purchases to a certain time in my life (coming next), but as I was looking at them again in a new light (literally), I realized I didn’t want them to continue on this journey with me (dramatic).

It’s a good idea to take the time to reevaluate each item. Ask yourself if it still fits, if you still love it, and if you have actually worn it recently. Be honest with yourself and don’t hold on to things just because you feel guilty getting rid of them.

Remember, the goal is to create a curated wardrobe that reflects your style and makes you feel good. Holding on to unnecessary items will only create clutter and make it more difficult to find and enjoy the pieces you truly love.

3. Don’t Use Shopping as a Way To Take Your Mind Off Things

There were a good 11 months in this 15+ month process that were just, rough, to put it mildly. Even though I “knew better”, there were times that I used shopping as a way to take my mind off the current situation.

New clothes meant new outfit ideas, new pictures to take, new posts to write…which isn’t a bad thing in my job, of course, and it’s natural to want to find a way to escape from the chaos and uncertainty. Retail therapy, as they call it. But using shopping as a way to take your mind off things is a slippery slope.

When I first started unpacking, I kept finding newer clothes that felt very random to me. They were clothes that were an impulse purchase, worn a few times, and then not a good fit for me anymore. Once the initial excitement wore off from these clothes, I was left with more stuff to pack, unpack, and find a place for in my new home. Ultimately, I ended up donating these items because the goal is to have a more intentional and curated wardrobe.

But here’s the important thing: I didn’t feel guilty about it. I just saw it as a learning moment and a reminder that shopping is not a good coping mechanism. I reminded myself of the healthier ways to deal with stress, such as taking breaks to go for a walk, getting lost in a good historical fiction book (by Kristin Hannah), and even just sitting down with a cup of tea and a journal.

These activities allowed me to take a step back and breathe instead of accumulating more stuff. Not only that, but it allowed me to appreciate the items I already had before rushing to add more to my collection.

Related: Ready To Get Organized? Here’s How To Get Past the Mental Hurdles of Decluttering Your Wardrobe

4. You Don’t Need As Many Clothes As You Think (Don’t Give Into the Temptation To Hold On to Everything)

The temptation to hold on to everything is strong, especially if you have a sentimental attachment to certain items or fear that you might need them in the future. It’s easy to think, “What if I regret getting rid of this?” or “I might wear this someday.” But in reality, holding on to everything can lead to clutter and unnecessary stress.

During my move, I faced this temptation head-on. As I packed up my clothes, I found myself hesitating to let go of items. I had to remind myself of something that I teach and preach – if I hadn’t reached for them in the past, I probably wouldn’t in the future! It was a challenging process at times, but it forced me to be honest with myself about what I truly needed and loved.

After all, holding on to everything holds you back from embracing a more streamlined and intentional wardrobe. And on the topic of intentional wardrobes, it’s easy to think that we need an abundance of clothes to feel satisfied. We fall into the trap of believing that having more options equals having more style. But the truth is, we don’t need as many clothes as we think.

Through my experience of moving and living with a smaller wardrobe, I was reminded that having fewer clothes can actually be liberating. It forces us to be more intentional with our choices and to truly appreciate the pieces we have. Instead of mindlessly shopping and accumulating items that we rarely wear, we can focus on curating a collection that reflects our personal style and makes us feel happy to wear.

5. The 80/20 Rule Is Real

When it comes to our wardrobes, the 80/20 rule is real and it’s a game-changer. This rule, also known as the Pareto Principle, states that we wear 20% of our clothes 80% of the time.

Packing up most of my clothes was a little sad, truthfully, and I thought I would miss a lot of them. But I got to be reminded of how much I reach for my same favorite wardrobe basics that are stylish yet comfortable enough to be worn regularly.

Think about it: How often do you find yourself reaching for the same favorite jeans or that one cozy sweater? Most likely, it’s a small portion of your wardrobe that gets the most use. Understanding the 80/20 rule can be incredibly liberating. It means that you don’t need to have a closet bursting with clothes to have a stylish and functional wardrobe.

In fact, having fewer items can actually make getting dressed easier and more enjoyable. By focusing on the 20% of your clothes that you truly love and wear regularly, you can create a curated collection that reflects your personal style.

Give it a try yourself. Take a look at your wardrobe and consider the items that you wear most often. What do they have in common? Is it the fit, the fabric, or the style? Use these insights to guide future purchases and declutter any items that don’t align with your favorites. Embrace the 80/20 rule and watch as your wardrobe becomes more streamlined, versatile, and effortless!

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6. Distance Can Help You Rediscover Old Favorites and Find New Ones

After unpacking my clothes and finally settling into my new home, I couldn’t wait to rediscover my old favorites and “find” new pieces to love. As I started to sort through my wardrobe, it was like reuniting with long-lost friends.

Rediscovering old favorites brought a sense of nostalgia and comfort. I remembered the special occasions when I had worn these clothes and the confidence they had given me. It was like reconnecting with a part of myself that had been temporarily hidden away.

But the best part of unpacking was the opportunity to find new favorites! As I organized my clothes and put together new outfits, I discovered pieces that had been neglected and overlooked in the past. I realized that my wardrobe was full of hidden gems, waiting to be worn and appreciated.

In the process of rediscovering old favorites and finding new ones, I developed a deeper appreciation for the clothes I already owned. It wasn’t about having the latest trends or the most extensive collection, but rather about curating a wardrobe that reflected my personality and made me feel confident.

Being separated from your clothes during a moving process gives you the opportunity to truly appreciate and reflect on each item. As you unpack, you may come across pieces that you forgot you had or ones that hold sentimental value.

Rediscovering these old favorites can bring a sense of nostalgia and joy. Plus, the physical distance between your old and new home can provide a fresh perspective on your clothing collection, allowing you to approach your clothes with a new set of eyes!

7. Never Pack Away the Wardrobe Staples

When it comes to clothing storage during a move, you might be unsure about what’s worth keeping in your closet and what you can live without. It can be tempting to pack away all of your clothes, buy new temporary pieces, and leave the old clothes in storage until you’re settled in your new home. Though I never considered packing away my wardrobe staples, keeping them accessible proved to be the right thing.

Your wardrobe staples are those timeless pieces that you reach for time and time again. They’re the reliable go-tos that can be styled with other things in your closet and always make you feel comfortable. Packing them away and not having them readily available can leave you feeling like something is missing.

Instead, prioritize your wardrobe staples and make sure they’re easily accessible when you move. Whether it’s your favorite pair of jeans, a classic white t-shirt, or a cozy sweater, having these items at your fingertips will make getting dressed in the morning a breeze.

Plus, they’ll serve as the foundation for creating a variety of stylish outfits. When it comes to clothing storage or decluttering during a move, remember to keep the basics close and let them be the anchors of your new wardrobe.

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Though I hope I never have to move again (joking but not really), the lessons learned in a decluttering and moving process can be invaluable!

Do you want to get started on a minimalist wardrobe journey? I created a free shopping checklist for you that will get you started on the wardrobe basics!

In the meantime, keep reading: Everything You Need To Get Started With Your 2023 Capsule Wardrobe

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1. “I’ll never find something that looks good on me.”

One of the most common lies we tell ourselves is that we’ll never find something that looks good on us. Whether it’s due to our body shape, skin tone, or personal style, this thought can be incredibly defeating when it comes to choosing clothes that make us feel confident and comfortable.

However, it’s important to remember that there are plenty of options out there for everyone! It might take some time and effort to find the right pieces, but they do exist. And when we do find those items that flatter our bodies and reflect our personal tastes, the feeling of satisfaction is worth the search.

2. “This was expensive, so I have to wear it.”

Have you ever found yourself holding onto a piece of clothing simply because it was expensive, even though it doesn’t fit or isn’t flattering on your body? This is a common thing that women do. They feel guilty for spending money on something they don’t wear and convince themselves that they must wear it to justify the expense.

But the truth is, keeping clothes that don’t fit or flatter your body is not doing you any favors. You’ve already spent the money. The money is gone whether you wear it or not. And actually, sometimes you can even make some money back if you decide to let it go and sell it!

But whether you sell it or not, it’s important to prioritize your comfort and confidence over the cost of an item. Wearing clothes that don’t fit properly or don’t make you feel good about yourself can have a negative impact on your self-esteem. Not to mention the guilt that you are reminded of every time you see or wear this item.

Instead of keeping these items in your closet, consider donating them to a local thrift store or selling them online. This way, someone else can enjoy them and you can feel good about passing them along.

And going forward, try to resist the urge to buy something simply because it’s expensive or on sale. Take the time to consider if it fits your body well, if it complements your personal style, and if it makes you feel confident. Remember, it’s not about the cost of the item, but how it makes you feel when you wear it.

3. “I can’t wear this because of my body shape.”

How often have you picked out an outfit you love only to reject it because you don’t think it will flatter your body shape? It’s easy to get stuck in the mindset that certain clothing styles are only meant for certain body types, and while there is truth to this, anyone can wear any style they want, with a few modifications.

For example, if you’re petite, you might think that you can’t wear long maxi dresses or wide-leg pants because they hide your legs and they’ll make you look shorter. But with the right accessories, these styles can actually elongate your frame and make you appear taller.

Similarly, if you have a curvy figure, you might shy away from form-fitting clothing because you’re worried about highlighting your curves too much. However, embracing your curves can actually be a confidence boost, and there are plenty of styles out there that can highlight your shape in a flattering way without being too revealing.

The key to overcoming this lie is to experiment with different styles, cuts, and silhouettes until you find the version of the style that works for you.

4. “I need to dress my age.”

One of the most common lies that women tell themselves as they get older is that they need to dress a certain way based on their age. But the truth is, age should never be a determining factor in what you wear!

Yes, there is something to say about dressing age appropriately and I’m all about choosing class, but the slippery slope is when we let society’s expectations of how you should dress dictate your style.

Just because you’re a grandma doesn’t mean that you can’t show your shoulders, wear leopard print ankle boots, or shop at Madewell. You aren’t confined to orthopedic shoes and sewing your own clothes for life! (Unless you want to, of course, and in that case, I support you 100%.)

Dress for yourself and your own personal taste. As long as you feel comfortable and confident in what you’re wearing, it doesn’t matter if it’s deemed “appropriate” for your age.

Related: What is a Classy Woman? Here Are 9 Examples To Become One

5. “Who really cares how I look?”

We may think that nobody is paying attention to our outfit or appearance, so why bother putting effort into it? However, the truth is that how we present ourselves can have a significant impact on how we are perceived by others – and how we feel about ourselves.

The most obvious example is if we show up to a job interview in a wrinkled, ill-fitting outfit. The interviewer may question our professionalism and attention to detail. On the other hand, if we show up in a well-fitted suit or dress, it shows that we put effort into our appearance and take the opportunity seriously.

Even if you aren’t interviewing for a new job but are, say, just walking into a store, your appearance can inspire other people. Want to know how I know? Because I get inspired by other people. Seeing someone take the time to look nice inspires me because I want to continue to do the same.

Even more importantly, how we feel about ourselves and our appearance can affect our confidence and self-esteem. If we feel frumpy or unkempt in our outfit, it can lead to negative self-talk and insecurity throughout the day. On the flip side, if we feel confident and put together, it can lead to a more positive outlook and increased self-assurance.

So while it may feel like nobody cares how we look, people are watching and subconsciously taking notes. By taking the time to put together outfits that make us feel confident and comfortable, we can combat this lie and present our best selves to the world.

6. “I need to look perfect all the time.”

On the flip side, it’s unhealthy to think that one, perfection exists, and two, you must achieve it. This mentality stems from society’s unrealistic beauty standards that we constantly see on social media and in magazines. But as you know, no one is perfect, and trying to achieve an unattainable level of perfection can be damaging to our mental health and self-esteem.

We often put immense pressure on ourselves to look perfect and wear the perfect clothes, but in reality, it’s important to accept and embrace our imperfections. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. Confidence is truly the key to looking and feeling great!

Another aspect of this lie is the notion that we need to be perfectly put together all the time. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to have lazy days and not always look flawless. There’s nothing wrong with throwing on some comfy clothes and enjoying a relaxed day. This doesn’t make us any less beautiful or valuable.

The reality is that nobody is judging us as harshly as we judge ourselves. It’s time to let go of the pressure to look perfect all the time and instead embrace our flaws and imperfections.

Related: How to Embrace Your Personal Style and Not Worry What Others Think

7. “I could never wear that.”

Have you ever seen someone wearing a daring outfit or a certain style and thought, “I could never wear that”? Before we even begin the day, we limit ourselves by believing that certain styles or pieces are not meant for us.

The truth is, there is no such thing as a “perfect” outfit. What may work for one person may not work for another, and that’s okay. But the next time you find yourself thinking, “I could never wear that,” challenge yourself to try it out. Take a fashion risk and step out of your comfort zone. You may be surprised at how confident and empowered you feel.

And if a certain trend or style doesn’t work for you? Don’t beat yourself up about it. In fact, give yourself a pat on the back. You tried something new!

8. “I’ll wear this when I lose weight.”

One of the biggest lies women tell themselves is that they will finally wear a certain item of clothing when they lose weight. This lie often leads to a cluttered closet and a negative body image. We have all been guilty of holding onto clothes that we hope will fit us one day. We hold onto that dress that we love but haven’t been able to wear in years, or that pair of jeans that are just a little too snug.

The problem with this mindset is that it puts our happiness and confidence on hold until we reach our desired weight. It also puts unnecessary pressure on us to lose weight, which can be unhealthy. The truth is, our bodies are constantly changing, and holding onto clothes that don’t fit just reinforces negative self-talk.

Instead of waiting to wear an outfit until we lose weight, we need to focus on finding clothes that make us feel good in the present moment. We need to be kinder to ourselves and our bodies, recognizing that we are beautiful just as we are. It’s important to focus on the positives, such as the way an outfit makes us feel confident and comfortable, rather than just focusing on the negatives, like whether it fits perfectly or not.

One way to combat this lie is to start dressing for the body we have now, not the body we want. We should prioritize comfort and confidence over size and shape. We can experiment with different styles and silhouettes to find what works best for our bodies. And, most importantly, we should let go of the pressure to fit into a certain size or look a certain way. Let’s embrace the body we have now and dress it with love and respect!

9. “I don’t have enough money to look nice.”

You see wealthy influencers sharing certain clothes that you can’t afford and then next thing you know, you’ve convinced yourself that you can’t look nice since you don’t have a big clothing budget like them. And though that lie is convincing, it’s still just that, a lie.

Many women believe that in order to look good, they need to spend a lot of money on expensive clothes. While it’s true that higher-end clothing is usually higher quality and worth it, it doesn’t mean that you can’t look stylish on a budget.

One way to combat this lie is to focus on quality over quantity. Instead of buying a lot of cheaper clothes that won’t last long, invest in a few high-quality pieces that will stand the test of time. Look for classic, versatile pieces that can be dressed up or down and worn in a variety of ways.

Another way to save money is to shop secondhand or at thrift stores. You can find great deals on gently used clothing that is still in great condition. It’s also a more sustainable option than constantly buying new clothes.

Most importantly, get creative with your wardrobe! Mix and match different pieces to create new outfits, and experiment with different styles and accessories. You don’t need a lot of money to look great – you just need to be creative and resourceful.

Do you need help building your dream wardrobe from scratch? I created a resource for you that will help you build a classic and versatile wardrobe from beginning to end!

10. “I look ugly in that.”

How many times have you stood in front of the mirror, feeling frustrated and disheartened because you can’t find anything in your closet that makes you feel beautiful? How many times have you dismissed an outfit before even giving it a chance, convinced that you’ll look ugly in it? This negative self-talk is toxic and needs to stop!

First things first: You’re not ugly. And I know what you’re thinking, “How can you say that? You aren’t looking at me.” The truth is, I don’t need to see you to know that you are beautiful. God only creates beauty.

And second, the word, “ugly”, is damaging enough in and of itself. What’s more, we often limit ourselves and our fashion choices based on this negative self-talk. But the truth is, you are the only one who sees yourself in such a negative light. You are your own worst critic.

To combat this lie, the first thing you need to do is to stop comparing yourself to others. (Easier said than done, right?) It’s easy to look at someone else and think, “I could never pull that off,” but remember that we all have our own unique style and body type. What looks great on someone else might not look the same on you, and that’s okay. Just because it doesn’t flatter you the way you want it to doesn’t mean you are ugly.

Instead of focusing on what you think looks ugly on you, try shifting your focus to what you do like about your body. Accentuate your favorite features with clothing that makes you feel good, whether that be a bold lip color, a flowy dress that flatters your curves, or a statement accessory that draws attention to your face.

11. “I don’t have the right occasion to wear this.”

We’ve all said this at least once when staring at a gorgeous dress online or an outfit in our closet. But why do we limit ourselves by thinking we need a specific occasion to wear something we love? Sure, you may not be able to wear a sparkly cocktail dress to work, but there are still plenty of opportunities to rock it!

Why not host a fancy dinner party with your friends or create some other special occasion to wear it? The truth is, there’s always a right occasion to wear something you love – even if you have to create the occasion yourself.

You don’t have to wait for a wedding or a gala to wear that fancy dress either. Throw on a denim jacket and some sandals, and wear it out for brunch with your friends. That statement piece you’re too afraid to wear to work? Pair it with a more muted outfit and let it be the star of the show.

Don’t let the fear of standing out or being overdressed hold you back from wearing what makes you feel confident and happy. The occasion doesn’t matter as much as how you feel in your clothes. Trust me, when you feel good, it shows. And who knows? Wearing something out of the ordinary might inspire others to step out of their comfort zones as well.

12. “I have nothing to wear.”

Ah, this is one of the most common lies we tell ourselves when we stand in front of our closet! In reality, we have plenty of clothes, but we might not know how to put them together. Or the problem is that we get stuck in a style rut, wearing the same outfits over and over again.

To combat this lie, take a step back and reassess your wardrobe. Do you need to declutter and get rid of items you no longer wear? Maybe you need to organize your closet, so you can easily see what you have and what you need. Perhaps you just need to try mixing and matching items you already own in new ways. And if all else fails, try incorporating a few new pieces to freshen up your look. But remember, you don’t need a completely new wardrobe to feel stylish and put together.

Related: Reinvent Your Wardrobe: How To Put Together Outfits With Clothes You Already Have

13. “I’ll keep this just in case I need it.”

We all have that one item in our wardrobe that we’ve been holding onto for years, just in case we need it for a special occasion. Whether it’s a cocktail dress, a blazer, or a pair of heels, we convince ourselves that it’s better to hold onto it than to get rid of it.

But the truth is, that item is probably just taking up space in your closet and causing unnecessary stress. If you haven’t worn it in the past year, chances are you won’t wear it in the future either.

The solution? Get rid of it. Donate it to a charity or sell it online. This way, someone else can enjoy it, and you can free up some space in your closet. Plus, you’ll feel a weight lifted off your shoulders knowing that you’re not holding onto something that you don’t need.

And if you do find yourself in need of something for a special occasion, there’s always the option to rent or borrow from a friend. Don’t let the fear of not having something hold you back from letting go of what you don’t need. Trust me, you’ll feel better for it.

14. “It doesn’t matter; I’ll just wear this even though it doesn’t fit well.”

Many of us have experienced that moment of staring into our closet and settling on something that doesn’t fit quite right. Maybe it’s a dress that’s too tight or a pair of jeans that squeeze in all the wrong places. Whatever it is, we convince ourselves that it’s better than nothing and that no one will notice.

But the truth is, we’re only fooling ourselves! Wearing clothes that don’t fit properly can actually make us look worse than if we didn’t bother getting dressed at all. Clothes that are too tight can create unflattering lumps and make us feel self-conscious. Clothes that are too loose can look sloppy and unkempt.

So why do we do it? Why do we settle for ill-fitting clothes? Maybe we don’t want to admit that we’ve gained weight or maybe we don’t want to invest in a new wardrobe. Whatever the reason, it’s time to stop the cycle.

First, take an honest look at your wardrobe and assess what doesn’t fit properly. If it’s something that can be altered, take it to a tailor or try your hand at some DIY alterations. If it’s something that can’t be fixed, it’s time to let it go.

Moving forward, invest in clothes that fit well. This doesn’t mean you have to break the bank – there are plenty of affordable options out there. Wearing clothes that fit properly can boost your confidence and make you feel great about yourself. So next time you’re tempted to settle for something that doesn’t fit, remind yourself that you deserve better.

15. “I’m too fat to wear anything nice.”

This is one of the most damaging lies women tell themselves about their bodies. It’s a common belief that being overweight means you can’t dress fashionably or stylishly. But the truth is, every woman can look fabulous – no matter their size!

It’s important to recognize that your body size and shape should not limit your fashion choices. There are countless options available to women of all shapes and sizes, and there are more size-inclusive brands now than ever. Embrace your curves and find styles that flatter your body type. Don’t hide behind baggy clothing or feel like you have to settle for unattractive outfits just because you’re not a certain size.

Another way to combat this lie is to challenge societal beauty standards. We’re bombarded with images of thin, toned models in magazines and advertisements, but the reality is that these standards are unrealistic and unattainable for most women. Don’t let these images make you feel like you’re not good enough. Instead, embrace your unique beauty and recognize that there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to fashion and style.

Related: How To Dress Well While Losing Weight and Look Ultra Stylish While You’re In-Between Sizes

When to Seek Professional Help

It’s important to note that struggling with negative body image and self-esteem issues is a common experience for many women. However, when these feelings become overwhelming and begin to interfere with daily life, it may be time to seek professional help.

If you find yourself constantly preoccupied with negative thoughts about your body, or if your self-esteem issues are causing you to avoid social situations or interfere with your relationships, it’s important to speak with a healthcare professional. They can provide support, guidance, and resources to help you overcome these negative thought patterns and learn to love yourself for who you are.

It’s important to remember that seeking professional help is not a sign of weakness, but rather a brave step towards self-improvement and a healthier mindset. So don’t be afraid to reach out for support when you need it!

You’re well on your way to feeling more confident with your wardrobe. Want even more tips? Keep reading: 7 Ways To Feel More Confident With Your Wardrobe – Starting Today

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How to Clean and Declutter Your Closet

Alright, it’s time to face the music. Your bedroom closet is a mess. But don’t worry, we’ve got your back. First step? It’s an easy one. Simply take a deep breath. You can do this! Once you’re done, you’re going to feel like Marie Kondo herself. 

The best way to begin is by taking everything out of your closet. Yes, everything. Lay it all out on your bed or floor and start sorting. Put similar items together, like shirts with shirts and pants with pants. Once you’ve sorted everything, it’s time to decide what stays and what goes.

For the items that are still in good condition but you haven’t worn in a while, consider donating them to a local charity or making a few extra bucks by selling them.

For those old clothes that have seen better days and aren’t in good shape, it’s time to let them go. If they’re not worth donating or selling, then they’re certainly not worth keeping. Toss them – you’ll be glad you did it in the long run!

Here are some things you should consider removing from your closet:

• Clothes that no longer fit: If you have clothes that don’t fit you anymore, it’s time to let them go. You may be holding on to them because you think you’ll fit into them again one day, but if it’s been years and they’re still sitting in your closet, it’s time to say goodbye.
• Clothes you haven’t worn in over 6 months: If you haven’t worn a particular piece of clothing in 6 months – 1 year, chances are you won’t wear it again. Take it out of your closet and donate it to someone who will appreciate it.
• Damaged or stained clothes: Clothes that are ripped, stained, or otherwise damaged should be removed from your closet. There’s no point in keeping them if you can’t wear them.
• Outdated styles: If you have clothes that are out of style or don’t reflect you, it’s time to let them go. Fashion trends come and go, but you want your wardrobe to reflect the current you.
• Shoes that hurt your feet: Shoes that are uncomfortable or cause pain when you wear them should be removed from your closet. Life is too short to wear uncomfortable shoes – or anything uncomfortable for that matter!

By cleaning out these items, you’ll free up space in your closet for things you actually use and enjoy. Plus, you’ll feel better knowing that your closet is full of things you love and will actually wear.

For a checklist and step-by-step guide on what to declutter from your wardrobe, I created this incredibly useful resource for you: How to Build a Wardrobe From Scratch eBook!

Once you’ve gotten rid of all the clothes that aren’t a good fit anymore (physically and metaphorically), take inventory of what you have. This will come in handy for our next step when it’s time to organize.

But get a head start by asking yourself these questions: What floats around your closet without a good home? What lack of storage drives you crazy the most? What accessories are always getting tangled up together? What clothing items can you never find?

Now that you’ve sorted and purged, and have an idea of the hot spots in your closet, it’s time to organize!

Tips for Organizing Your Closet

After decluttering your closet, it’s time to start organizing it in a way that maximizes your space. If you have a walk-in closet, lucky you! Your work isn’t done but it just got easier. You’ll find that closet systems with dresser drawers and shelf dividers are a great way to maximize closet space.

For those of us with a small closet or even tiny bedroom closet, it’s all about utilizing every inch, such as hanging an extra closet rod for clothes and installing shelves for shoe storage to keep shoes within reach.

Here Are Some Organizing Tips That Can Help You Get Started:

1. Sort your clothes by category: Start by grouping all your clothes by type. For example, put all your shirts together, then group your pants, dresses, and so on. This will make it easier for you to see what you have and find what you’re looking for.

2. Use hangers wisely: Generally, sweaters keep best when they’re folded. And when you’re hanging clothes, consider the weight of the items. Heavy coats should go on sturdier hangers, so it’s best to swap out all your thin plastic ones for luxe velvet hangers. Also, try using slim hangers (instead of bulky wooden ones) to save space.

Related: How to Make Clothes Last Longer

3. Organize your clothes by color: An alternative (or in addition) to sorting your clothes by category is to group them by color. This can make your closet look more cohesive and make it easier to find items quickly.

4. Store items by frequency of use: Keep the clothes you wear most often in the most accessible spots, while clothes that you wear less frequently should be stored in the back or on higher shelves.

5. Hang clothes strategically: When it comes to hanging your clothes, consider arranging them by length. Hang shorter items on one side and longer items on the other. This not only looks visually pleasing but it also helps to prevent creases in your clothes.

6. Rotate off-season clothes: Take some time to rotate your clothes seasonally. This means storing out-of-season items in under-bed storage and swapping them out with current-season clothes. This not only saves space but also ensures that you’re only keeping items in your closet that are currently relevant to your lifestyle.

7. Fold strategically: If you have limited hanging space, fold items like sweaters, t-shirts, and jeans to create more room. You can also use folding techniques to keep items visible and organized.

8. Invest in some organizing tools: Consider purchasing storage solutions like hanging organizers, shelf dividers, or shoe racks. These can help you make the most of your closet space.

Speaking of organizing tools, we’ve rounded up some of the best ones for you!

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How to Organize Jewelry:

1. Gather all your jewelry: Start by collecting all your jewelry items from different corners of your closet (don’t forget that one random earring in your purse.) Spread them out on a flat surface like a table or bed.

2. Sort your jewelry: After purging the pieces you don’t want anymore, sort your jewelry by type, such as necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and rings.

3. Invest in jewelry organizers: There are various types of jewelry organizers available, from simple trays with compartments to multi-layered jewelry trees. Choose the one that best suits your jewelry collection.

4. Hang necklaces: Long necklaces can get tangled up easily, so it’s best to hang them on a jewelry tree or hooks to prevent them from getting knotted.

5. Use drawer inserts: If you prefer to keep your jewelry hidden away in a drawer, use drawer inserts with compartments for each type of jewelry. This will help prevent tangling and make it easier to find what you need.

6. Keep earrings together: It’s a good idea to use earring organizers to keep your earrings together in pairs. No one likes losing one earring!

7. Store delicate items carefully: Delicate pieces like freshwater pearls and sentimental pieces like your grandmother’s vintage designer brooch could be stored separately in a soft pouch or clear jewelry pouch to avoid scratching.

How to Organize Shoes

1. Start by taking inventory: Begin by taking all your shoes out of your closet and going through them. Discard any shoes that are damaged and donate or sell shoes that don’t fit your feet or your personal style. This will help you take stock of what you have and make it easier to organize your shoes.

2. Use shoe racks or shelves: Investing in shoe racks or shelves is a great way to maximize your space and keep your shoes organized. Shoe racks come in different sizes and shapes, and they can fit under your clothes or at the bottom of your closet. You can also use shoe shelves or shoe stackers to keep your shoes tidy and accessible.

3. Store off-season shoes away: You don’t need your winter boots in the summer, so just as you did with your clothes, store off-season shoes away. You can keep them in these sturdy canvas bags and place them under your bed or in a spare closet. To ensure they’ll stay in good condition, make sure you are only putting clean items away.

4. Sort shoes by style or color: Whatever method you liked best with your wardrobe, continue the method over to your shoes. Group your shoes by style, such as all sandals go together, or by color. This will make it easier to find what you need.

5. Store shoes in clear boxes or shoe bags: Storing shoes in clear boxes or shoe bags is a great way to protect them from dust and moisture. Label the boxes or bags with the type of shoe or the season to make it easy to find what you’re looking for.

6. Use over-the-door organizers: If you don’t have enough space in your closet, consider using over-the-door shoe organizers. These can be hung over your closet door and provide easy access to your shoes.

If you can’t tell by now, every item needs a place and organizational method! From belts to earrings to underwear, this is key to keeping your closet organized.

How to Keep Your Closet Clean and Organized

Now that you’ve gone through the hard work of cleaning and organizing your closet, it’s important to maintain your newly streamlined space. But first, give yourself a pat on the back!

1. Stick to a regular cleaning schedule: Cleaning your wardrobe is not just a new year resolution! Schedule a day each month to declutter and clean your closet. This will help prevent your closet from getting out of hand again.

2. Put things back where they belong: After you’ve worn an item of clothing, put it back in its designated spot. Make this a part of your daily routine. (Still working on this one myself, honestly.) This will help prevent clothes from piling up and becoming a mess again. Plus, you can then easily find what you’re looking for next time you need it.

3. Donate items regularly: As you buy new clothes or accessories, consider donating items you no longer wear or use. This will help keep your closet clutter-free and make it easier to find the items you love. One in, one out.

4. Store off-season clothes: If you live in a climate with distinct seasons, consider storing your off-season clothes in bins or boxes until you need them. This will help free up space in your closet for seasonal items you’re currently wearing.

Congratulations – you have now successfully organized and cleaned out your closet like a pro! You have learned how to declutter your closet, you picked out the right storage containers, and finally organized your clothes, shoes, jewelry, and accessories. Continue to follow these tips and your tidy closet (and sanity) will thank you.

Do you want to add that extra something to the aesthetic of your closet to transform it? Get all the ideas you need in this next post: How to Make Your Closet Look Like a Boutique

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But before you plan your decor, first you need to plan your tea party theme. From an elegant tea party inspired by shows like Bridgerton (I’ve only seen pics) and Downton Abbey to an Alice in Wonderland and mad hatter theme, there are plenty to choose from.

Here are even more ideas to get you started:

Tea Party Theme Ideas for Adults

1. Vintage tea party: Decorate with antique-inspired teacups, floral tablecloths, and lace doilies.
2. English garden tea party: Create a garden theme with fresh flowers, a charming bench, and garden-inspired decorations.
3. High tea party: Add sophistication with crystal glasses, silver cutlery, and elegant tea sets.
4. Alice in Wonderland tea party: Create a whimsical atmosphere with colorful decorations, oversized teacups, and playing card accents.
5. Parisian tea party: Bring the romance of Paris with Eiffel Tower centerpieces, macarons, and French music.
6. Bohemian tea party: Add some bohemian touches with tapestries, floor cushions, and dreamcatchers.
7. Rustic tea party: Create a cozy and rustic feel with wooden accents, burlap table runners, and mason jar vases.
8. Holiday tea party: Celebrate the holidays with themed decor – such as a red and green color scheme, evergreen trees, and snowflakes.
9. Floral tea party: Decorate with soft pastel colors, floral decor, and fresh flowers.

When sending out invitations to your tea party guests, make sure to state the dress code so your guest list feels prepared. You can even design the invitation in a way to subtly hint at the theme – or fully revealing it works too!

Tea Party Decor Ideas

1. Cake Stands

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When it comes to hosting an adult tea party, the cake stand is a must-have item for any tea party theme. A beautifully decorated cake stand will not only serve as a functional item to showcase delicious treats, but it can also add a touch of elegance to your tea party decorations.

There are so many different ways to incorporate cake stands or tiered serving stands into your afternoon tea party. The most common way is to display an assortment of tea sandwiches, finger sandwiches, and yummy goodies.

Typically, each tier will hold a separate course. The first tier (working from the bottom up) will hold your savory sandwiches, the second will display your scones, and the third will hold the desserts, such as mini cupcakes, macarons, shortbread cookies, pastries, tea cakes, or cupcakes.  

It’s been said to plan 3-4 tea sandwiches per guest for your tea party menu (though it’s great to plan extras). I just hosted a tea party a few weeks ago, and these were the sandwiches I made. They were a hit!

• Prosciutto, goat cheese, fresh basil, and honey
• Smoked salmon and cream cheese
• Cucumber, dill, and butter

Cut these sandwiches into small bites so your guests can have easy-to-eat finger foods. 

In addition to serving as a display for delicious treats, cake stands can also be used as party favors for your tea party guests. Party favors aren’t a must-have (depending on your occasion), but they can be a nice touch!

Here’s an idea: Fill small jars with assorted tea bags, honey sticks, or small chocolates. Tie it up with a bow! This will add a personal touch to your tea party and give your guests something to remember the occasion by.

2. Tablecloth

tablecloth

A tablecloth is the perfect decor piece to tie it all together. Choosing a high-quality fabric such as linen or lace can make a significant difference in the overall aesthetic. Or depending on your theme, such as a vintage tea party, you can select a tablecloth with delicate patterns or embroidery for a timeless look.

Whichever you chose, the tablecloth will serve as a backdrop for your place settings, fine china tea cups, and all the delectable treats on your menu. Don’t worry thinking that you need to go splurge on an elegant silk tablecloth. Think about what you already have in your linen closet. For example, I used a flat linen bedsheet and it created a beautiful, natural look!

3. Silverware

silverware

I love it when function and decor meet. Even with serving mostly finger foods at a tea party, it’s a good idea to have some silverware for things like stirring sugar into your tea cup as well as buttering a scone. You’ll want to use silverware that matches the overall aesthetic of your event.

For example, I chose plastic gold silverware for my Parisian tea party, but you can choose silver or nickel for a classy, Downton Abbey theme.

By taking care of the selection and presentation of your silverware, you’ll add an important layer of sophistication to your tea party. Your guests will appreciate the attention to detail and the thought you put into your tea party decorations!

4. Glasses

plastic glasses

When hosting a tea party, it’s essential to have beautiful glassware to serve your beverages in. For tea, traditional tea cups and saucers are always a lovely touch. If you’re throwing a tea party in the South, try serving iced tea in vintage crystal glasses or delicate stemware.

You can also consider adding a splash of color to your tablescape with colored glassware. There are so many good plastic options out there, so you don’t have to spend an arm and a leg! Don’t forget to provide a variety of beverages, such as water, tea, lemonade, or champagne, to satisfy all your guests’ preferences. Cheers!

5. Fresh Flowers

Is your tea party really complete without a fresh flower or two? I think not! Fresh flowers can be a great way to add a touch of natural beauty to your tea party decor. Whether you choose a colorful bouquet of wildflowers or opt for a simple arrangement of white roses, fresh flowers add a subtle yet sophisticated element to your tablescape.

To incorporate fresh flowers into your tea party decor, consider using them in your centerpiece or placing a small vase of flowers at each place setting. You can also use flowers to add color and texture to your table runner or place them on cake stands to create a stunning dessert display.

When choosing your flowers, consider the season and the color palette you have selected for your tea party. If you are hosting a springtime tea party, for example, you might choose delicate blossoms in soft pastels or vibrant greens. For a summer tea party, bright and bold flowers such as sunflowers or dahlias can be a great choice.

When arranging your flowers, keep them simple and elegant. A small bouquet of fresh flowers in a single color can be just as impactful as a more elaborate arrangement.

Related: 31 Cute Summer Outfits You’ll Want to Wear All Season Long

6. Candles

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Candles can create a cozy and inviting atmosphere for your guests, especially if the tea party is taking place in the evening. Use taper candles and candle sticks for an elegant touch.

To take it to the next level, choose scents that complement the overall ambiance of the party. For example, lavender or chamomile-scented candles would pair well with a calming tea party theme. With the right candles, your tea party will feel both beautiful and comforting! Not to mention smell nice.

7. Table Runner

table runner

A table runner is a seemingly insignificant decor piece but can make a big impact on the overall aesthetic of the event. It adds a touch of elegance and can help tie the different decorative elements together. There are many different styles and materials to choose from, depending on the theme of your tea party.

For a classic and sophisticated look, consider a lace or embroidered table runner. This will add a delicate touch to your tea party decor and can complement fine china and floral arrangements. If you are going for a more rustic or natural theme, a burlap, gauze cheesecloth, or linen table runner can add texture and warmth to the table.

8. Vases

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A great way to add some floral elegance to your tea party decor is through the use of vases. Not only do sculptural vases add beauty, but they can also serve as a functional element by holding flower arrangements.

Consider incorporating multiple small vases or one large statement vase as your centerpiece. You can fill them with fresh-cut flowers or even opt for faux flowers for longer-lasting decor. Want to add dimension and texture to your tablescape? Mix and match vases of different shapes, sizes, and colors.

When selecting vases, consider the style of your tea party. For a more classic and elegant look, choose clear or crystal vases that are simple and timeless. Alternatively, for a more eclectic and bohemian vibe, consider colorful or textured vases that are unique and eye-catching.

Incorporating vases into your tea party decor not only adds a touch of beauty and sophistication but can also elevate the ambiance and overall atmosphere of your event!

9. Fine China

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In case you haven’t noticed by now, yes, your beautiful yet practical items double as decor! From your teapot to your cups and saucers, choosing the perfect fine china for your tea party adds to the overall theme and ambiance you’re aiming to create.

For a traditional English tea party, choose china with delicate floral patterns and a classic teapot to match. For a more modern tea party, you may opt for a bold color or design that stands out.

Don’t forget to include cream and sugar on the table for guests who take their tea with milk and sugar. You can also mix and match patterns to create a unique and stylish look!

10. Plate Setting

plates | napkins

From your placemat to your napkins, when it comes to hosting a tea party for adults, the details truly matter!

Choose high-quality napkins and plates in complementary colors and designs. It’s best to keep these elements fairly simple, with classic colors and patterns that won’t detract from the rest of the table decor. Alternatively, you can use this as an opportunity to add a pop of print and show off your theme, such as vintage floral plates for an English garden party.

If you want to incorporate a placemat, select a coordinating one that complements the overall theme and color scheme of your tea party. A beautiful, textured placemat can add interest to the table without being overpowering. Make sure it’s large enough to accommodate the place setting and any additional items you plan to add, such as the menu or place cards.

To add a touch of elegance, consider adding a delicate lace doily to the center of each place setting. This subtle addition can enhance the visual appeal of your whole table. (And look good in photos!)

By paying attention to the details of your table setting and overall decor, you’ll create a welcoming and inviting atmosphere for your tea party guests. They’ll appreciate the thought you’ve put into every aspect of the event, from the napkins to the silverware!

Now that you’ve got these 10 charming decor tea party ideas for adults, it’s time to decide on your outfit. Up Next: How to Dress for a Tea Party: The Definitive Guide to Tea Party Fashion

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But the fact that it’s so hard means the reward is even greater. Whether you’re a fresh, new mom, an expecting mom, a mother figure, or a mom that’s been doing this mommin’ thing for decades, I think we can all agree that being a mom, however it looks, is one of the hardest yet most meaningful and rewarding things we can do.

And though mothers don’t usually receive the recognition they deserve, let’s change that this Mother’s Day. Whether you’re shopping for your luxe mother, your grandma who is really more like your best friend, your cool aunt that you can talk to about anything, or your sister who just joined the motherhood ranks with you, it’s so easy to get the perfect gift at Nordstrom!

This post is sponsored by Nordstrom. Thank you for supporting the brands that support My Chic Obsession.

Nordstrom is the one-stop shop for finding a special gift for the woman you’re celebrating. You can shop comfortably within your price point while perfectly encapsulating her personality. A new perfume for the beauty lover? Check. Fuzzy socks for the cozy homebody? Check. A timeless gift for the classic woman? Checkity check check.

Plus, from 5/3 – 5/7, you get 3x loyalty points integration. And if you live near a Nordstrom, you can buy online and pick up in-store if you need a last-minute gifting option. (No shame, we’ve all been there!)

Whatever it is, she deserves something special! And if you’re wondering what “special” is, can I interest you in a classic gift? Head right this way.

Err, I mean, scroll down!

A classic gift with a hint of luxe is the perfect thing to give her this holiday. It doesn’t go out of style and it makes her feel special. And if she’s already a classic woman, then she’ll love and appreciate these gifts even more!

1. Baccarat Rouge 540 Eau de Parfum

If you want to splurge on the perfume lover, then this is the one to pick. Though it’s pricey, reviewers say it’s simply unforgettable. Wondering what it smells like? Just imagine an amber, floral, and woody breeze.

2. Ettika Twist Hoop Earrings

For casual looks or dressier occasions, these twisted hoops plated with 18-karat gold are the perfect everyday accessory. With a 5-star rating, you can’t go wrong!

3. House No.23 Alaia Cotton Robe

Get through your day knowing you have this waiting for you. It makes a great gift. Here’s proof: “I just received this robe as a birthday gift and wow, it is amazing! This robe looks and feels much more luxurious than other robes I have had. Highly recommend!”

4. Night Silk Pillowcase

A pillowcase that actually improves skin and hair while you sleep? I’ll take two! Sleeping with silk pillowcases can help reduce frizz and prevent wrinkles on your face.

5. Monica Vinader Locket Necklace

Mother’s Day is the perfect day to gift a locket. Not only is it a classic jewelry piece, but you can put a special picture inside, making it even more sentimental.

6. Nordstrom Pajama Set

There’s nothing quite like the feeling of slipping into fresh sheets with a new, cozy pair of pajamas. It’s what dreams are made of. Give the “comfiest pajamas ever” and the “world’s best PJs” to the cozy woman in your life!

7. Nécessaire Body Wash

Luxury body wash? For Mother’s Day, why not? Not only is the bottle beautiful, making a great addition to your bathroom shelf, but this high-end cleanser also contains niacinamide, which can keep your skin moisturized and healthy.

8. Slip Pure Silk Contour Sleep Mask

An eye mask that won’t smush your eyelashes – now who says we aren’t progressing? Whether someone travels a lot or just can’t sleep a wink if there’s light, this eye mask is a practical, thoughtful, and luxurious gift.

9. Diptyque Fragrance Room Spray

This favorite French brand made its debut with its iconic candles and now they offer a room spray that is yes, pricey, but “one of those items you didn’t know you needed but once you have it, you won’t be able to live without it.”

10. Longchamp Le Pliage Tote

A classic black tote bag without an overpowering logo? Hard to find – but it exists! This bag is perfect for any woman in your life because it can be used for everyday life – whether that’s traveling, commuting, going to the office, shopping, or dropping off kids at school.

11. La Mer Renewal Face Oil

La Mer has a reputation for being one of the most prestigious skincare companies in the world, specifically this “bottle of gold”. Though the price is hard to justify as an everyday buy for most women, it makes the perfect luxe gift. Classic women all over the world have claimed this to be the “bottle of youth”.

12. Ja Malone English Pear & Freesia Candle

Close your eyes and imagine the luscious scent of perfectly ripe pears on a brisk autumn day. Now open them. If that sounds like a dream, then stock up on these candles and give them as gifts because reviewers say this is the “best candle ever!”

13. Yves Saint Laurent Lipstick

Even if no one knows you’re wearing it but you, there’s just something about designer lipstick that elevates not only your outfit but the way you feel about yourself as well. Classic red is the shade that looks good on everyone.

14. Cos Silk Scarf

A silk scarf is a gift that keeps on giving. Why? Because it’s not just a scarf. It’s a hair wrap, an accessory to your purse, a headband, and depending on the size, a beach coverup.

15. Nordstrom Cuff Bracelet

A cuff bracelet is a classic piece to have in your jewelry collection. It’s an easy way to bring a little bit of polish to all of your looks.

16. Sterling Forever Pearl Stud

If she doesn’t have a pair of freshwater pearls yet, then it’s time to change that! Classic women will appreciate this classic gift.

17. Le Specs Black Sunglasses

I can’t think of anything more classic than a pair of black sunglasses. And this particular pair? Perfecto. They are chic, classy, and they’ll make you look like a celebrity. Because apparently, Meghan Markle wore them to her NYC baby shower!

18. LSA Pleat Vase

Simple yet unique, this vase makes a great gift because it can match a variety of home decor styles. Plus, it’s practical! Everyone can appreciate having a stylish vase, whether it’s used once a year for holidays or decorated daily in the entryway.

Now with the perfect gift, I hope you have the perfect time celebrating, whether you’re the one being spoiled, you’re celebrating someone else, or both. And if this year you’re using this list to shop for yourself or forward to your partner, don’t worry, I won’t tell! Because been there, done that.

Now that you have the perfect gift, do you want to plan a special outing with her? Get ideas in this next post: 11 Friend Date Ideas That Will Create the Best Memories

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I was very hands-off planning for this mini getaway trip to Marco Island. The point of this trip was to be a break after a busy end of the year with my work, as well as a refresh for the new year.

Why Marco Island? Well, admittedly, there was not much of a reason Titus chose this specific place. He chose it because it was the warmest spot we could get to with a direct flight (and a little driving) from our small airport.

Though I had never heard of Marco Island before, it ended up being a very charming place that we loved! Because the point of this was to relax, I didn’t even bring out my camera or post to Instagram, but I did capture moments on my phone!

We stayed at the Hilton Marco Island Beach Resort and Spa and upgraded to get a poolside room. Now there’s a luxury I didn’t even know I needed!

We had direct access to the pool from our room and it’s so nice and convenient to walk straight to the pool instead of having to travel throughout the hotel, take the elevator in a wet swimsuit, etc. Of course, it’s just that, a luxury, but I didn’t know I would like it so much.

And you would think it’d be noisy being by the pool, but it wasn’t for us. But the demographic at our hotel was very much families, couples, and older travelers. Maybe the time of year, such as spring break, would affect that.

We could see when the hot tub was empty too, so we were able to have it to ourselves for a while which was nice.

So I had planned a bunch of outfits a few weeks prior but the weather shifted drastically a few days before we were meant to leave and my previously picked outfits would have been too bare.

I didn’t have the mental energy to think of new things to wear (Titus was also out of state and I was solo parenting for a bit), so Titus just threw a bunch of things into a suitcase for me and I styled them as I went along!

I was actually pretty happy with my outfits. This is why I’m always talking about the benefits of a curated capsule wardrobe. With versatile pieces, you could throw a bunch of things into a suitcase and still come out with cute looks!

Check out my How to Build a Wardrobe From Scratch eBook to get the step-by-step process on how to create this type of wardrobe!

And though the weather wasn’t hot by any means, the sun still felt nice and strong when laying by the pool. That’s all I wanted so I was pleased. And we even got some sun!

Because we were there for only a short amount of time, we didn’t plan any activities or excursions. We laid by the pool, walked around the island, drove around and looked at houses, and went out to eat. That’s a pretty ideal itinerary for a few days if you ask me!

Oh, and to offset laying around and eating, we walked along the beach and picked up shells (balance, right?). Marco Island is known for its shells and the beautiful white sand had plenty of these pretty treasures.

I personally am a big fan of shorter trips. Less time there equals less guilt about eating unhealthy, paying resort prices, or just doing nothing for days. Okay, so maybe I should just work on my mental health and guilt, but a trip doesn’t have to be long or exotic to be great!

Seize the opportunities you have to take a break, whether that’s a long weekend away to a warmer place or a night off and getting take out from your favorite restaurant.

Planning a warm weather trip? Check out this Minimalistic and Chic Tropical Vacation Capsule Wardrobe so you can have chic and versatile beach looks!

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And in a fun way, it felt like we were getting married all over again with the wedding we never had! Thankfully, we had a good wedding photographer for our wedding 8 years ago, but the rest of the details were lacking, in my opinion.

Not like it really matters in the grand scheme of things, but it looked like our wedding was put on by a 19 and 20-year-old…but maybe that’s because it was! I didn’t have a custom cake or expertly designed florals. And as for my dress? It was around $150 and I got it from Ebay.

Here’s a peek into our “wedding day”, organized by Nat Finley Photography, along with all the amazing vendors that contributed!

Photographer: Nat.finley
Venue: Oak Hill Farm
Dress: Salt Gowns
Makeup: Britni Farber
Tux: Graham’s DBQ
Florals: Samantha Hughes with River Valley Designs
Stationary: Designed by Adele Herman
Cake: Alexia Priske with wildeflour goods maker 
Vow books: TheCozyComfyHome
Ring: Olivia Mar
Signs: Lovely Little Light

Getting ready…

How stunning is the bride and groom table?

Don’t get me started on the beauty that is the flower backdrop. The talent!

Fun fact: We didn’t even have cake at our wedding. Just cheesecake bites. I finally had my “cut the cake” moment!

Sunset vow reading…

Up Next: I Let My Husband Dress Me For A Week

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Favorite Outfit(s): I rounded up my favorite outfits from 2022 into this classic outfit inspiration graphic below!

Favorite Books:
For self-reflection- Happiness Is a Serious Problem, Margin/The Overload Syndrome
For entertainment- It Ends With Us, The Midnight Library

Favorite Comment, Email, or Message I Received:

Favorite Clothing Purchase(s): Based on how much I wore these items throughout the year, my favorite clothing purchases were these Sam Edelman Waterproof Knee High Boots (sold out, sorry) and a Goyard tote bag that I scored used.

Favorite Trip: Paris, of course!

Favorite Project: Launched a course, an in-depth secondary guide to my eBook, How to Build a Wardrobe From Scratch. Thousands of women have benefitted from our fashion resources this year and that makes it all worth it!

Favorite Photos: The Dreamy Parisian Balcony Photoshoot, Fresh Flowers in Paris photoshoot, and the Sunset at the Biltmore photoshoot.

Favorite Family Moments: 2022 was a year of change, transition, and adjustment. We found solace in God’s creation by exploring, getting dirty, and playing at our land. These were our favorite memories as a family. Our 4-year-old would say the same!

Favorite Work Projects for the New Year: We’ve got another eBook coming!! This is not another companion to building your wardrobe, yet it has foundational tips that can help anyone and everyone. That’s all I’m going to say for now!

Thank you Google Photos, for helping me piece my life together this past year. If I didn’t have a camera roll to look back on, my memory would be full of black holes!

Okay, now, it’s time for YOUR favorites!

According to analytics, these are the most popular things, starting with purchases.

Your Favorite Items:

These were determined by the amount purchased.

1. Banana Republic Luxe Touch Crew Neck T-Shirt (White)
2. Banana Republic Supima Crew Neck T-Shirt (White)
3. Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater
4. Target 3pk Crew Socks
5. Target 3pk Mary Jane Fold Over Cuff Socks

Your Favorite Investment Items:

1. M.Gemi Lustro Heel
2. Coach Lori Pebble Leather Shoulder Bag
3. Talbots Portland Pants
4. Prada Pointed Toe Pump

Your Favorite Blog Posts:

1. 7 Ways to Elevate Your Style
2. 8 Things French Women Don’t Wear (And What They Wear Instead)
3. How to Dress Like a French Woman Over 50
4. 7 Casual Elegant Outfits for Every Day
5. 8 Easy Outfit Combinations You Already Have in Your Wardrobe

Your Favorite Retailers:

1. Nordstrom
2. Amazon
3. H&M
4. Madewell
5. Everlane
6. Mango
7. Uniqlo

Your Favorite Posts to Hate:

These are the most controversial posts based on comments. Did I ever think a fashion post I wrote would be controversial? Certainly not, but it’s the world we live in. And you’ve just got to learn to laugh!

1. 8 Things French Women Don’t Wear (And What They Wear Instead)
2. 7 Ways to Elevate Your Style (And What You May Be Doing Wrong)
3. 7 Chic Ways to Wear a Brooch (That Aren’t Old-Fashioned)

P.S.- It is never, ever my intention to offend people or make them feel bad for the way they dress. My hope is only helpful guidance and though a lot of the messages and comments I get are downright rude and nasty, I actually do appreciate reading (most of) them because I always want to know how content is received and how I can make it better. I am always trying to learn and improve. After all, my business is you, the reader!

Your Favorite Year: It’s 2022! It was the best year yet with views increasing by 4 million.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for making the favorite moments from this year even possible. Getting to celebrate these milestones with you happens because of your incredible support. Thank you for daily checking out MCO for your fashion tips, purchasing something through a link, or investing in yourself through our eBook or course.

That’s a wrap for 2022. But I can’t wait to share what next year has in store for you, your wardrobe, and your fashion.

Until then, stay chic.

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FASHION

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1. Levi’s Straight-Leg Jeans– You can’t go wrong with a classic pair of Levis straight-leg jeans. After all, they are what most stylish French women wear. The jeans have a vintage-inspired design style to highlight your curves and give you a cheeky lift.

2. Trench Coat– This trench coat is great for creating a chic look. It is classic, versatile, and ready for all sorts of seasons. The fit is a bit loose for comfort and the functional pockets are great for chilly days.

3. Slip Dress– Okay, how elegant is this slip dress? It’s the type of dress you need to slip into to achieve the French girl style. Heading to a date or wedding? Wear it with your favorite pair of high heels or ballet flats.

4. Blazer-A classic black blazer is a necessity for those zoom calls or trips to the office. You can use it to dress up a plain white t-shirt and skinny jeans, or it could be layered over a slip dress.

5. Floral Wrap Dress– Floral dresses are always in style, but when spring or summer comes around, you will want to wear them on repeat. Dress them down with classic white sneakers or slip on cute sandals.

6. White Button-Down– A white button-down shirt that comes in 100% cotton? Yes, please! Amazon reviewers love that the fabric is not sheer and has a comfortable fit. The shirt can be worn with a variety of bottoms, like straight-leg jeans or a skirt.

7. Knit Cardigan– Equal parts functional and fashionable, this ribbed cardigan is the perfect stylish solution to winter and fall dressing. Take inspiration from Parisian women and pair yours with a slip skirt and ballet flats. You could also wear this bestseller cardigan with straight-leg jeans.

8. Espadrilles– French girls are a fan of espadrilles when spring and summer come around. So it would only make sense that you added these to your shoe collection if you want to master French style!

9. White Summer Blouse– Nothing screams “summer in Paris” like a sweet puff-sleeve blouse. Summer blouses with this feminine detail make perfect statement pieces for different summery pieces.

Related: What You Need for a Parisian Style Summer Wardrobe

10. Vintage Sunglasses– These are French-girl-approved shades you need in your repertoire. They are a great way of adding a cool vintage element to any look.

11. Gold Coin Pendant Necklace– If you had the opportunity to go through a jewelry box owned by a French woman, chances are you would find a gold coin pendant necklace. This piece is great for wearing with a basic white tee and blazer or with a white button-down shirt.

12. Striped Shirt– A Breton top is always a stylish choice for Parisian women for a good reason! It has a timeless appeal. The top can easily be worn with straight-leg jeans, classic shorts, or a fancy skirt.

13. Slip Skirt– A slip skirt, the sister to the slip dress, is a wardrobe staple. It is extremely versatile. You can style it with a matching slinky camisole top or with a basic white tank top.

14. Gold Hoop Earrings– These gold hoop earrings are the perfect statement piece to own in your collection. They are affordable and undeniably chic. Use them to elevate your casual pieces or to add the finishing touches to your formal outfit.

15. Silk Scarf-Sometimes it’s the little things like a silk scarf that can transform an entire look. This piece makes for an elegant accessory to add character to a plain outfit.

16. Ankle Boots– It is always a good idea to have ankle boots in your wardrobe. They are a great pair of shoes to add a little bit of edge to a little black dress or casual jeans.

17. Veja Sneakers– White Veja sneakers reign supreme in a French girl’s closet. No one can deny how casual chic they look. These subdued sneakers are good if you don’t like wearing sneakers decked out in too many patterns and colors.

18. Wicker Basket Bag– The best way to add a little bit of fun to an outfit is with a cute basket bag. Even though it is the perfect bag to carry in the summer, you can be like Parisian women and accessorize with it in the fall too.

19. Longchamp Le Pliage Bag– If you are in the market for a timeless, chic, and generously sized bag, this pick will tick all your boxes with its neutral design and spacious interior. Plus, because it is so universal, you can team it up with pretty much anything in your closet.

20. Ballet Flats– There is no shoe more universal or practical than the humble ballet flat. This classic pair transcends all shoe trends, which is why they are a wardrobe staple. The quilted detail and cute bow make this shoe just too stylish not to snag. You can wear them with a slip dress and a blazer outfit.

21. Cashmere Sweater– Every woman needs a wear-with-everything cashmere sweater. It is an all-year-round staple that can be styled with other high-quality pieces. Layer on a trench coat or a black blazer.

22. Beret– Berets have the power to take what is otherwise a pretty standard outfit to a high-fashion look in seconds.

23. Black Lace Bralette– One of the best ways to give your outfit a chic and feminine update, even if no one knows it but you, is with a lace bralette.

24. Retro Shoulder Bag– French fashion style sometimes takes a nod to the retro aesthetic of the 70s and 90s; This includes oval shades and shoulder bags. Give your whole look a retro appeal with this black shoulder bag.

BEAUTY

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25. Bioderma Micellar Water– If there is one beauty product that you need to stock up on, it’s micellar water. This French beauty staple has an ultra-gentle formula that is great for sensitive skin and removing makeup without the need for tap water.

26. NUXE Multi-purpose Dry Oil– The summery scent of this dry oil will transport you to France. It contains 100% botanical oils to nourish and repair the skin, leaving you with an irresistible satin sheen with no oily finish.

27. Embryolisse Moisturizer– Your beauty bag is not complete without this moisturizer. This beauty essential provides skin with nutrients and water for balance and protection from environmental aggressions. It can be used as a primer, moisturizer, makeup remover, and a repairing mask. It has a creamy milk texture that leaves a satin film, even on dry skin.

28. Eau Thermale Avene Facial Mist Spray– French girls have really good skin, and it is down to products like this facial mist spray. It has mineral properties that help improve skin texture and soften and restore the skin barrier. This aesthetically pleasing mist spray also contains postbiotic microflora to calm and soothe the skin.

29. L’Occitane Hand Cream– This luxurious-looking hand balm is formulated with a high concentration of 25% shea butter to provide intense nourishing care. So if you have dry hands, the shea butter will create a protective film for your skin. The balm also instantly melts into the hands to immediately soften the skin.

30. Multistick Tint– Add a healthy flush of color to your cheeks and lips with this multi stick tint. The blush is infused with nourishing skincare ingredients like aloe and camellia.

31. Diptyque Perfume– If you love the Diptyque candles, you’re also going to be ecstatic about this perfume. Reviewers say it’s floral and fresh, not flowery and stuffy. The classic scent is the perfect mixture of cool and delicate fragrances.

32. La Roche-Posay Sunscreen– 90% of Amazon buyers have rated this sunscreen 4 stars. It’s also a favorite at the French Pharmacy for good reasons. The oil-free and fragrance-free formula glides on the skin effortlessly. It goes on sheer and gives a velvety finish.

33. Pre de Provence Artisanal French Soap Bar– Enhance your cleansing experience with this traditionally crafted French bar of soap. Not only will it fill your bathroom with beautiful scents, but the shea butter and white gardenia ingredient will lather up to give you soft skin.

HOME/LIFESTYLE

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34. A Paris Book – For a peek into the lives of real women living in Paris, this book belongs on your coffee table. It will inject your living room with an abundance of Parisian charm.

35. Diptyque Room Spray – Replace your air freshener with this luxurious room spray. The spray will fill up your room with sweet scents of berries. Plus, the spray will double as decor for your coffee table or fireplace.

36. Imported French Gourmet Coffee – Can’t get on a plane to Paris to experience the coffee culture? Get this authentic French gourmet coffee instead. You will enjoy it way more than store-bought coffee.

37. Espresso Mugs -Swap your basic coffee mugs with these espresso mugs. The cup boasts an inner wall that creates an insulating effect. You will love sipping on your gourmet coffee in these!

38. Stovetop Espresso and Coffee Maker – Brew your coffee the French way with this stovetop expresso maker. It produces six demitasse or espresso servings of rich, smooth espresso coffee within minutes.

39. French Crepe Mix – Your gourmet French coffee is not complete without homemade crepes. If you don’t want to make them from scratch, get a quick mix instead.

40. Le Creuset Cookbook – Add a splash of color to your kitchen countertops with this vibrant cookbook. If you’re a foodie, it features French recipes you’d love to try.

41. French Crepe Recipes Cookbook – Do you love crepes? Here are different recipes and techniques you’ll love discovering.

42. L’Epicurien French Jam – A trio of sweet apples, crisp cider, and calvados? Delicious! Enjoy it with some crepes or toast.

43. La Boulangere Pains Au Chocolat Croissants – Chocolates and croisants? Count me in. This delicious dessert is perfect for breakfast or picnics.

44. French Almond Macarons Gift Box – Almond macarons? Is there anything nicer? The foodie in your life will love snacking on these treats.

45. M’Heritage Mini Saucepan with Lid – This copper saucepan deserves a spot in your kitchen. It would look beautiful on an open shelf or hanging from a rail.

46. La Rochere Flore Coffee Mug Set – Give your dining room or kitchen a Parisian café vibe with these coffee mugs. The artisanal French glassware pays homage to the historically significant French cafe, Café de Flore.

47. Copper Brass Old Dutch Teakettle – If you’re in the market for a new kettle, this copper and brass kettle is too charming not to include on your electric or gas stove.

48. French Press Coffee Maker – Transform your kitchen into a Parisian café with this French press coffee maker. The copper design isn’t bad either!

49. La Tourangelle Organic Extra Virgin Olive Oil – Olive oil is at the heart of most French cuisines. Be like the French and drizzle use it in your marinades and vinaigrettes.

50. Harney & Sons Paris Tea – Are you an avid tea drinker? This blend was created in homage to Paris. Plus, how elegant is the packaging? It will look great in your pantry and the tin can be reused.

51. Madeleine Pan – Baking is going to be extra fun with this heavy-duty cake mold. It is perfect for baking some mouth-watering French cakes.

52. Market Tote – Trips to the grocery store or the farmers market are going to be way more stylish with this tote. It has a classic design that won’t ruin your outfit, and because it’s a generous size, you can store a lot of groceries.

53. Picnic Basket Set – Doesn’t this basket inspire you to host a Parisian-themed picnic? It features an insulated interior to keep food and drinks cool. Better yet, the basket also comes with a set of dining utensils.

From food, drinks, fashion pieces, to home decor, Amazon has a wealth of French Parisian staples to Frenchify your life.

Need more French Parisian finds? Here are Parisian party decorations for your upcoming celebrations.

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